Martyrdom has never been a part of the loving process. When he obviously wants to extract you out of his life, let go. If he already has another woman, move on. If you know you there's no way you can have him again, forget. Love is not always about working things out. Sometimes, you'll have to learn to give up when it's obviously over. After all, there would always be someone who'll deserve your love and worth more than he did. And when you found that someone, you'll be very thankful it wasn't him.
You don't always have to fight for things, especially when you know it won't work out anymore. But that won't mean you'll be bitter about it. Try to let go and understand things. Love is not always about the competition and comparison, it's not always about winning the race. Sometimes, losing will make you feel better, especially when you understand why certain things happen.
Life really goes out this way. It goes beyond your control and sometimes, it make you do things you are not used to do before. You love with no reason, trust with no hesitation, forgive with no more need for elaboration. But it'll make you feel thankful when you realize ... it's worth the experience after all.
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